What is lonely?
What is lonely? I have been asked by several people since I started my travels if I am lonely traveling alone over the many miles I have gone so far? I think the thing about the question is that it really leaves a lot to be defined. Lonely compared to what? Compared to before I started travelling? Compared to you? Compared to the locals and people I meet along the way or where I am? Compared to a “typical” single guy my age? Compared to a married guy with children and an active social life? For one thing there are many aspects of loneliness. You can be lonely even if surrounded by people who know you because you feel they don’t “get” you. You can be lonely in a long-term relationship because you realize it isn’t going great and possibly over. You can be lonely because you are stuck in a routine (at home or work) and not having deep conversations with people. There are so many ways you may feel lonely ...