Have a great day!
Have a great day!
Enjoy your day.
Hey, what a good day it is!
You've heard and probably used these expressions many times.
It is something we do or say automatically.
Have a nice day! It's a common courtesy. But what really makes a good day for us?
If you've read this far, then I suspect you're already involved
in the fight for making it a great day. It’s a choice one makes each and every
morning if you are a lucky one and wake up this morning.
Did you know it's awfully easy to NOT have a good day? Seems like we are always trying to push water
uphill or teach a pig to sing (we don’t rent pigs). People get bogged down in the everyday
mundaneness that we sometimes fall into.
The choice is made to just exist some days. A bad day is one that ends
in leaving most of us depressed. But the
fact is we do have some really good days.
Waking up just before sunrise to witness the color changes
as our new day begins with the fade out of darkness and a renewed glow slowly
creeps in widening across the sky and shortly becomes pale yellow then changes
to orange or red, and finally the beginning of day once again with many birds
outside chirping lively melodies.
Sometimes it is the simple things that make it a great day.
We all deserve to have good days; more good ones than bad
ones is my way of thinking. The bottom
line is that each day is what you make of it. I don't believe in having bad days. Oh, no doubt, I'll have some bad moments; but typically
not a bad day. I'd like to share with
you how that is possible because I believe that if we can find more good days,
we'll stay positive so we can all keep enjoying our lives and those around us.
We received a stark reminder on 9/11; I think we've all
learned that we should count our blessings every day. I know this event seriously reminded me that
life is precious and we should not waste our time on things that bring us
unhappiness. There is a lesson here for all of us.
I am fortunate in that I learned this a long time ago when I
got on the plane to come home from Viet Nam. I decided then and there to NOT have bad days;
but rather to enjoy every day and to find something to smile about each day. This revelation came at a price; but one that
I'm glad I paid. I would not want to
live through going to war again; but I will never lose sight of the insight I
gained by doing so. Life is a gift and
blessing which should be nourished to the fullest each waking moment.
We must, and can learn to have good days. Each day is what we make of it. Each day is measured by how we react to the
things that happen to us. It's our
reaction that counts. If we allow
someone else to dictate how we feel about our day, then we're likely to have
more bad than good days. I say, Choose
how you react. Don't allow yourself to
be suckered into someone else's bad day. It's about allowing and choosing.
The words allow and choice is words I live by and keep posting
from time to time as I go about my daily emails and writing. I
remind myself that I have the option to choose how I react to things; and that
I do not have to allow someone else to determine how my day goes. It's my choice.
Reflect on something good by the time you hit the sack so
that you can make something good out of your day. It'll make you a healthier person in the long
run.
So with that in mind, have a truly great day.
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